IT’S Just A Game! Right….
If you were to add up all of the years that my wife Julie and I have spent on hard bleachers of volleyball courts and Baseball fields it would total up to 20 plus years. You would not believe the some of the things that we have heard over the years from the stands of these Hard Bleacher seats. Here is a sample we heard the other night at a fall
baseball game for High Schoolers, a 16 yr old kid is up to bat, the count is 3 -2
( a Full Count ) the boy swings at a high pitch and hits it straight up in the air making for a easy catch for the first baseman, and then from the hard seat bleachers his dad stands up and yell’s ” Terrible, just Terrible, what is wrong with you” heck I was just impressed that he got the bat on it, but to this dad, and I use the term loosely, the son was a flat out failure at the plate! A few innings later, the same young man was playing third base, and there are runners on first and second, a sharp hit ball comes screaming towards this kid, and I cant beleive it, but he fields it perfectly ( I would have ran the other way ) and touches third base and gets the lead runner out! But for dad, that is just not good enough, he felt his kids should have made a Major league play and whip the ball to first base, so the dad stands up and starts yelling at the poor young man and made sure that he knew his father thought he was stupid for not making the throw! I can go on and on with these kind of stories from the baseball fields and volleyball courts all over Tennessee, Washington and Oregon, but I think you get the picture. Thinking of this poor 16 yr old kid, it occurred to me that in 2 years he would be off to college and becoming a man. Is this what this dad wants to communicate to his kid on the last few years at home ” you are horrible, you are stupid’. I have already sent one daughter one son out the door and my 17 year old son is down to his last 8 or 9 months at home with his mom and I. I want my kids to know that when they leave the house and jump into this world on their own that they are LOVED, they are SMART, they are WONDERFUL, they are my pride and joy. Something tells me this
16 yr old boy is not hearing this, but the opposite ” terrible & stupid’ . I just don’t get it, do we really believe that our kid is going to be the next Josh Hamilton? Do you realise that if you added up all of the professional athletes from the big 3 ( baseball, football & basketball ) there are only 2,050 in the country! Sorry dad, but the odds are not great! So, is it really worth hurting a relationship over? Basic
ally these kids, our kids are on loan to us from God… so how about we just sit back and enjoy watching our kids have FUN, even if they strike out!
Oh, by the way I am not just talking about non christian dads here, no I have seen some very Godly men, even Pastors do and say some crazy stuff. Please relax and enjoy, these seasons of life are way to short! Lets be our KIDS NUMBER 1 FAN
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Matthieu Colin
Youth for Christ Military Youth Ministries US Coordinator. Eastern Coordinator for MCYM Youth Ministries. Speaker, Trainer, Husband, Dad, Woodcarver, Bad golfer, Parrot Head who loves the Ocean.
